Going to see Santa

Going to see Santa by sandy-ibrahim featuring a black tote

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Emporio Armani fitted coat
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Longchamp black tote
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Holiday Night In

I love Christmas Movies! White Christmas, Holiday, It's wonderful life... it doesn't matter. I love them all. In years past, I have always watched holiday movies by myself, early in the morning or late at night, while wrapping presents or decorating cookies. This year, I decided we would have a super casual affair, and I would come out of the closet for my Holiday Movie Love. That's right, sweat shirts, comfy leggings and cozy socks are the uniform for this girly get together. For the menu red wine of course, Domino's pizza, and Ben and Jerry's out of the carton. I'm not sure which will come first, ice cream or pizza, it will probably depend on the delivery man. Our feature of choice... it has to be Elf. Will Ferrell, you have my heart and you feed my soul. Suffice it to say, I'm excited, and we are doing it on a weekday... sort of the opposite of every other holiday fete. But, all the more wonderful to me. 

Hosting a Wrapping Party

Last year, I did most my wrapping in the wee hours of the morning or late at night... it was stressful, it was rushed, it was no fun... This year we are trying something a little different: a Girls Afternoon In Wrapping Paper Party. I love how when you leave your schedule open wonderful things magically appear. 

The plan is pretty simple: friends, quiet house (baby nap time), black and white movies, Christmas carols, cozy fire, easy menu and wrapping presents galore.  

• Movie: I love having a old movie on mute on in the background. It gives you something to look at but doesn't interrupt the conversation or flow of the party. This time of year it has to be, "It's a Wonderful Life." 
• Christmas Carols: Does anyone pay for music anymore? I don't know. I love Spotify and Pandora. They have some wonderful Christmas stations. I am really partial to the It's Christmas Time with Bing Crosby and the Ratpack Christmas.
• Is there anything more homey than a fire in the fire place? We use JavaLogs or Natural DuraFlame logs. It makes setting a fire a breeze and clean up even easier since there is very little ash. 
• Easy menu: Since we picked a time in the afternoon when the kiddos would be sleeping, we don't really have a full meal. But I was planning on serving a Champagne Bar with various trimmings: Canton ginger liquor and candied ginger,  Framboise raspberry liquor and a raspberry, Pomegranate liquor and some pomegranate seeds, and finally Hibiscus flower pods in their juices. I was also going to have some cheese and crackers and some chocolate covered oreos. I will probably also put out some fruits and veggies... as is obligatory. 
• Wrapping presents: we all have left over tags, ribbons and paper that maybe don't match. A wrapping party is great time to recycle all of those bits of odds and ends. Also, you never know what your friends will bring over, perhaps their tags are perfect for the wrapper you bought last year on clearance.

I hope this idea inspires you to have a little more fun with your Christmas Chores and make a joyful afternoon. 

As always, many blessings, much love and Merry Christmas!

The true meaning of Christmastime

Like all working moms, with little kids and heart to share, I am usually overwhelmed by the month before Christmas. I am always trying to pack too many parties, cookies, niceties, traditions, and family outings into an already overloaded month. It is so easy to be just too busy to do any "heart work" or spiritual growth. This year, I am trying to be a little counter-cultural. I am loving my devotional The Greatest Gift: Unwrapping the Full Love Story of Christmas by Ann Voskamp. I love thinking of the Christmas tree as Jesus's Family Tree and learning more about Jesus and how He became our greatest gift. It has given me a completely new perspective on Christmas. Instead of rushing to run upstairs and wrap presents or write Christmas cards, I find myself stopping, to breathe and be thankful in prayer. Actually, I feel like my heart and mind are quieter, no to-do lists on repeat constantly burdening me. 

Growing up Orthodox, we always had a secular holiday celebration on the 25th of December and a religious celebration on 6th of January. We fasted, or chose not to eat meat before Christmas, as a mean of spiritual preparation. As a young person, I always found this fasting to be more of distraction than anything. But, now I find December to be an incredible opportunity for spiritual growth. It is so very simple, but I am truly astounded at how many years it took me to realize this. 

Don't get me wrong, there will be cookies, and parties, and celebrations, presents and more food than we know what to do with. But in the heart of me, my focus is different. Instead of trying to give the best gifts, or throw the best parties, I'm focused on learning ways to be quieter and kinder. I'm gifter, that is how I love. But this year, my focus is on showing kindness and affection in a way that is not focused on the materials but more gentleness and being present. 

If you are thinking about doing this with your family, Ann Voskamp also has a family read-aloud version Unwrapping the Greatest Gift: A Family Celebration of Christmas. 

Whatever your holiday preparations are, I hope they are joyful. Merry Christmas. I wish you and your family a peaceful and spiritual Advent.  

Thanksgiving Kids Table

I love hosting adults, the cheese plates, the wine, the no nap-time constraints. But if I am honest, truly honest with myself, I love hosting kid parties much better. Even incorporating kid elements into adult parties are my favorite parts. I thought I would share my kid table for Thanksgiving and share a few of my tips for getting kids to sit down and their menu. 

The kid's table 

My son is 3 and he loves reading his name and find it written on anything. So I took felt stickers and added the kids names to the jack'be'little pumpkins at each seat. I also wrote the kids names on the chalkboard labels on mason jars. I love the little mason jar lids. I stuck an upside down cupcake wrapper in a coordinating color. Each mason jar was held up in a pumpkin shaped cupcake holder. I made a turkey crayon holder out of some construction paper, googly eyes, and plastic cups. For the plates, napkins, and flatware I used disposable products from target. I just chose a color palate I liked and thought was appropriate for the theme. I covered the table in white butcher block paper, and then used printed construction paper as place mats. To make the table a little more exciting and to keep the place mats in their spot I added a few owl stickers.  

A few tips to help kids sit down 

The most important aspect of any event is free, and it is timing. To help children sit down at the table we planned for the families to come over around 5 and that kids dinner would be hosted at 5:30 and adult dinner at 6. This gives everyone a chance to come in, get a drink, and take their coats off. The parents can mill about helping the children start their meal while they nibble on cheese and drink wine. 

I covered the table with "kid bait" to get them to sit down... i.e. a teaspoon of M&Ms and goldfish. It is not enough to fill them up, but it is enough to get them seated. 

I also had the kids seated close to the grown-up table and close to the television. I chose Charlie Brown Thanksgiving. It is perfect for a dinner party because the jazz music is lovely, it is interesting to the kids but the music and voices are not distracting. 

Kid's Menu

Roasted Turkey, diced and cooled

Steamed Carrots, cooled

Cheese Sticks

Apple Slices

Grapes, cut in half 

Cranberry Apple Juice cut with water

All in all it was a great kids party. They had a wonderful time, and they ate something too... 

Elegant and Simple Thanksgiving Menu

I think Thanksgiving is one of the few times in life when boring and traditional is exactly what you want. Nobody wants an avante garde Thanksgiving Menu. We do a very simple but elegant dinner and then have pie at my mother's home. Our menu is small but tasty, everything is made from scratch and relatively simple to prepare. Our menu for this year is: 

Dave's Smoked Turkey with Pecan Wood

Roasted Carrots and Parsnips topped by Pumpkins Seeds

Roasted Brussel Sprouts and Pancetta

Garlic and Herb Mashed Potatoes

Traditional Green Bean Casserole 

Apple Pie 

Pumpkin Pie

Whipped Cream

All in all is not large or complicated but just wholesome enough to make you feel like you enjoyed a proper Thanksgiving Meal. I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Our Thanksgiving Traditions

In our home Autumn is a super busy time of year, with all the Michigan Games and friends birthdays we don't have a free weekend all season. Which is the reason a calm and peaceful Thanksgiving means so much to me. Here are my family's top 10 traditions. 

1. Thanksgiving Day in the morning we go for a walk in the woods in a park near our house and do our "Wildlife Thanksgiving." We throw pieces of bread and bird seed as we walk around. We get to enjoy the scenery and send some love to the birds and squirrels. 

2. In the same park we are going to try to meet up with my brothers to throw the football around. Not that we are very good, but it is nice to get the blood flowing before a big meal. I also really like to run around with my three year old. He has so much fun and joy is just contagious. 

3. My husband smokes a turkey breast. He starts it when we get back from our walk. I think it is the best turkey you can eat, but I also love that it frees up the over for me so I can make all the fixings and of course... PIE. 

4. PIE... nuff said. My best friend growing up always had a thankful list on her mom's fridge. On it was "I am thankful for pie and more pie." So, without fail I will make at least two if not three pies. I have a super simple pie crust I use, and the fillings are really simple, but it is wonderful to make them from scratch. 

5. I can't say I have ever watched the entire Macy's Day Parade, but I love having it on in the living room while I cook, between football commercials... of course. 

6. While the pies are in the oven, the turkey is in the smoker, the baby is napping and the parade is on TV. Dave and I play board games usually dominoes and back gammon. This year we are super excited to introduce our little one to this tradition, we are betting on "Let's Go Fishing."

7. When we sit down to dinner, we eat off of Dave's Grandmother's vintage Mikasa Whole Wheat china. I love it. Truth be told, we eat off these dishes almost everyday, but it is particularly nice to have an heirloom to use on the holidays. I like to think of all the wonderful meals that have been served on these plates for the last 70 years. 

8. Our centerpieces for the table is really simple, just some nice yellow and golden leaves that we collected on our walk in the woods that morning. We have a song that we sing to my son every night called "golden leaf." It seems only appropriate that we would have some golden leaves on the table, as he is what we are most thankful for. 

9. After we eat our meal, we all head over to my mother's house. You would think that we would get dressed up like families do at the holidays, but we actually dress down. I wear a slouchy sweat shirt, leggings, and slippers to go over to my moms. We put my son in pajamas so he can go straight to bed. 

10. Last but not least, every year we set up my mother's Christmas tree, my dad's old nativity and my sisters little Christmas village. It is really the only tradition that we have. It is a cheesy tradition, but I love it. My mom has a huge artificial tree and more ornaments than any healthy amount. But it is a hoot, to have coffee and pumpkin pie and bring the dusty boxes from underneath the stairs. 

So, there you have it. My families top 10 Thanksgiving Traditions. I hope it helps you with yours. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving.