Christmas Dinner Party

A peaceful and happy Christmas Day is so important. I find the easiest way to enjoy the holidays and see all my loved one is for us to "take the show on the road." We are going to spend the morning at my mother's house. She kind to have us over. After brunch we will head back home for a much needed nap. Then we will be spending the evening at a friend house. 

You want to dress up and be festive for Christmas but it is a long day, so you want to be comfortable. 

• For him: comfort is key, find a comfortable sweater, some slacks that are roomy, and comfy shoes. If he tends to get hot... wear a breathable shirt underneath, so that if you get to warm, the top sweater can come off. 
• For her: embellished sweaters are the best, they are warm and have sparkle. I love pleated metallic skirts, they are comfortable but at the same time fun. For jewelry, some sparkle dangle earrings and cuff bracelet are comfortable and still elegant. Shoes, D'orsay pumps with a low heel is both lady-like and wearable for a long day. (You can always slip them off under the table). 
• For the little guy: Oh to be young and not notice clothing. A button down plaid shirt, some blue slacks and a little sweater says polished but not snooty. 

As for what to bring. Always, always bring a hostess gift. Hosting is very expensive and time consuming, and a small token like a nice candle or stationary says that you understand and appreciate their hard work. I also like to contribute to the meal. If it is a breakfast a fresh pastry and some fresh squeezed orange juice is nice. At dinner, I usually try and bring a nice bottle of Champagne and a dessert. This year for Christmas Dinner, I will be attemping (cross your fingers) to make Nigella's Ultimate Christmas Pudding and a Jello Mold for the children. What is nice about both of these desserts is that they can be made a few days in advance leaving plenty of time for enjoying Christmas Time and the company of loved ones. Remember to send a Thank you note the next day and a phone call. Hostess and Host always want to be sure that their guests had a nice time.